"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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approach: Your Take!

sexyfaceme

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Approach , this alone talks volumes about "the guy" . An old player friend of mine once told me: " If you wanna know how much game a guy has watch how he approaches"

I've worked a lot on the way I approach. Earlier my eye-brows would go up and I made stiff body movements. Now Im much calm and relaxed..

what goes through your mind when you approach and what is the best way to approach ... Discuss. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PokerStar

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make sure i have a big smile. eye contact. during the convo i throw in a light neg hit.
 

In2theGame

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I'll chime in here. I think many guys have different methods that work for them. As for me, If a girl is checking me out and i look over and we keep EC, i smile a bit and im not sure how to explain it but i have one of those left arched eye brows that if i smile i goes higher than my right lol sounds strange i guess but that gives off a sign like "oooo heeyyy" and the girls like it. so i may say something to open up and if she smiles or laughs, im in and i ask for the number and to hang out. All the girls i ever dated said i have a seductive type of approach where i wont just ask for the number or whatever but mostly make a comment about her smile and make her blush. When i met my recent ex, Man my game was pretty damn strong, i used to make her smile so much that one time she ran off into the bathroom because she wanted to hide her huge smile. Even recently, My best friends girlfriends friend, Hot brunette, i gamed it smoothly and she was smiling so much that she put her head on my chest because she was smiling so much. My ex of a LONG time ago i remember my game was on the rise i made her tear from the "sweet things" i would say lol. Anyway... Keep the mood light, if you approach cold, See her reaction, get a feel for a girls look towards you. Is she smiling? is she making strong EC? Is she glancing over at you more than twice? did you make quick EC with her and she gave off a quick smile? if so,.. go in and say Hey and if shes feeling it... should be no problem as long as you keep it cool.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sexyfaceme

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In2thegame: that was good!

what up guys! I thought this is the don Juan forum!
 

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I only approach if and only if she looked at me like she wanted me to fvck her......i havent been getting too many looks because i have a pissed off look about me and i dont like smiling
 
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