"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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approach: Your Take!

sexyfaceme

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Approach , this alone talks volumes about "the guy" . An old player friend of mine once told me: " If you wanna know how much game a guy has watch how he approaches"

I've worked a lot on the way I approach. Earlier my eye-brows would go up and I made stiff body movements. Now Im much calm and relaxed..

what goes through your mind when you approach and what is the best way to approach ... Discuss. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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make sure i have a big smile. eye contact. during the convo i throw in a light neg hit.
 

In2theGame

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I'll chime in here. I think many guys have different methods that work for them. As for me, If a girl is checking me out and i look over and we keep EC, i smile a bit and im not sure how to explain it but i have one of those left arched eye brows that if i smile i goes higher than my right lol sounds strange i guess but that gives off a sign like "oooo heeyyy" and the girls like it. so i may say something to open up and if she smiles or laughs, im in and i ask for the number and to hang out. All the girls i ever dated said i have a seductive type of approach where i wont just ask for the number or whatever but mostly make a comment about her smile and make her blush. When i met my recent ex, Man my game was pretty damn strong, i used to make her smile so much that one time she ran off into the bathroom because she wanted to hide her huge smile. Even recently, My best friends girlfriends friend, Hot brunette, i gamed it smoothly and she was smiling so much that she put her head on my chest because she was smiling so much. My ex of a LONG time ago i remember my game was on the rise i made her tear from the "sweet things" i would say lol. Anyway... Keep the mood light, if you approach cold, See her reaction, get a feel for a girls look towards you. Is she smiling? is she making strong EC? Is she glancing over at you more than twice? did you make quick EC with her and she gave off a quick smile? if so,.. go in and say Hey and if shes feeling it... should be no problem as long as you keep it cool.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sexyfaceme

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In2thegame: that was good!

what up guys! I thought this is the don Juan forum!
 

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I only approach if and only if she looked at me like she wanted me to fvck her......i havent been getting too many looks because i have a pissed off look about me and i dont like smiling
 
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