Approach went wrong
I’ve been reading this site for a week before it was shut down. I think I’ve learn a lot from here, and this site also gave me enough confidence to approach a girl, which I have never done before until now.
There is this girl that I know from my lab class. She usually wears a head scar, which makes her look really cute. I usually see her two days a week. I started to feel attracted to her 3 weeks into the class. That was when she and I were paired for a lab experiment. Since then, we don’t really talk much. Whenever we meet, she will just stare at me for a couple of seconds and walk away.
A couple of weeks ago I decided to talk to her, which I did. I was so nervous that the thing I said didn’t come out right. I told her that she looks really nice today. She replied, “There is no lab today?!” I said, “I don’t know. I think we do.” She asked me why I am here. I told her I just came from my Golf class. We started to walk and talk about golf after that. I was the one doing all the talking during our golf conversations. She was heading to the girl locker room, and I followed her without even noticing it. I was like, “Where are you going?” She replied with a smile, “The girl’s locker room.” I was a foot away from the door, before I stopped and said something like “What the hell!” We both smiled and look at each other for a couple of seconds. I told her I’ll see her later, and I left.
I don’t care how bad that approach went, but it felt wonderful. Later on that day we went to our lab class, and we didn’t really talk much because we had a final test before spring break. I finished the test early and left, because I had a review session to go to.
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Talking about golf is not interesting, so how can you change the subject from golf to something that she can talk about and I will be the one listening?
I’ve been reading this site for a week before it was shut down. I think I’ve learn a lot from here, and this site also gave me enough confidence to approach a girl, which I have never done before until now.
There is this girl that I know from my lab class. She usually wears a head scar, which makes her look really cute. I usually see her two days a week. I started to feel attracted to her 3 weeks into the class. That was when she and I were paired for a lab experiment. Since then, we don’t really talk much. Whenever we meet, she will just stare at me for a couple of seconds and walk away.
A couple of weeks ago I decided to talk to her, which I did. I was so nervous that the thing I said didn’t come out right. I told her that she looks really nice today. She replied, “There is no lab today?!” I said, “I don’t know. I think we do.” She asked me why I am here. I told her I just came from my Golf class. We started to walk and talk about golf after that. I was the one doing all the talking during our golf conversations. She was heading to the girl locker room, and I followed her without even noticing it. I was like, “Where are you going?” She replied with a smile, “The girl’s locker room.” I was a foot away from the door, before I stopped and said something like “What the hell!” We both smiled and look at each other for a couple of seconds. I told her I’ll see her later, and I left.
I don’t care how bad that approach went, but it felt wonderful. Later on that day we went to our lab class, and we didn’t really talk much because we had a final test before spring break. I finished the test early and left, because I had a review session to go to.
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Talking about golf is not interesting, so how can you change the subject from golf to something that she can talk about and I will be the one listening?