"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Approach went wrong

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Approach went wrong

I’ve been reading this site for a week before it was shut down. I think I’ve learn a lot from here, and this site also gave me enough confidence to approach a girl, which I have never done before until now.


There is this girl that I know from my lab class. She usually wears a head scar, which makes her look really cute. I usually see her two days a week. I started to feel attracted to her 3 weeks into the class. That was when she and I were paired for a lab experiment. Since then, we don’t really talk much. Whenever we meet, she will just stare at me for a couple of seconds and walk away.

A couple of weeks ago I decided to talk to her, which I did. I was so nervous that the thing I said didn’t come out right. I told her that she looks really nice today. She replied, “There is no lab today?!” I said, “I don’t know. I think we do.” She asked me why I am here. I told her I just came from my Golf class. We started to walk and talk about golf after that. I was the one doing all the talking during our golf conversations. She was heading to the girl locker room, and I followed her without even noticing it. I was like, “Where are you going?” She replied with a smile, “The girl’s locker room.” I was a foot away from the door, before I stopped and said something like “What the hell!” We both smiled and look at each other for a couple of seconds. I told her I’ll see her later, and I left.

I don’t care how bad that approach went, but it felt wonderful. Later on that day we went to our lab class, and we didn’t really talk much because we had a final test before spring break. I finished the test early and left, because I had a review session to go to.
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Talking about golf is not interesting, so how can you change the subject from golf to something that she can talk about and I will be the one listening?
 

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Ask open-ended questions. Not as easy as it sounds I know - practice on some friends.
 

Blackdragon5095

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When apporaching a girl it should be this

opener---->Topic----->conversation

The Opener can be from hello to hey. Also the opener can be a question or even a joke if she gets the joke.

The Topic it can be about anything as long as it not about death, sex ( not all girls who you first talk to want to talk about sex )and other things ( I forgot)

The Conversation make sure you do 75% of listening and show that you are listening. Women will talk and talk as long as you listen. Avoid 2 things, talking way too much about yourself and talking way too much about other people.


Good job man :up: you are well on your way to becoming a DJ. Getting in the field is 1 of the best ways to become a real DJ don't stop kept apporaching.
 
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