“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Approach went wrong

I’ve been reading this site for a week before it was shut down. I think I’ve learn a lot from here, and this site also gave me enough confidence to approach a girl, which I have never done before until now.


There is this girl that I know from my lab class. She usually wears a head scar, which makes her look really cute. I usually see her two days a week. I started to feel attracted to her 3 weeks into the class. That was when she and I were paired for a lab experiment. Since then, we don’t really talk much. Whenever we meet, she will just stare at me for a couple of seconds and walk away.

A couple of weeks ago I decided to talk to her, which I did. I was so nervous that the thing I said didn’t come out right. I told her that she looks really nice today. She replied, “There is no lab today?!” I said, “I don’t know. I think we do.” She asked me why I am here. I told her I just came from my Golf class. We started to walk and talk about golf after that. I was the one doing all the talking during our golf conversations. She was heading to the girl locker room, and I followed her without even noticing it. I was like, “Where are you going?” She replied with a smile, “The girl’s locker room.” I was a foot away from the door, before I stopped and said something like “What the hell!” We both smiled and look at each other for a couple of seconds. I told her I’ll see her later, and I left.

I don’t care how bad that approach went, but it felt wonderful. Later on that day we went to our lab class, and we didn’t really talk much because we had a final test before spring break. I finished the test early and left, because I had a review session to go to.
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Talking about golf is not interesting, so how can you change the subject from golf to something that she can talk about and I will be the one listening?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ask open-ended questions. Not as easy as it sounds I know - practice on some friends.
 

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When apporaching a girl it should be this

opener---->Topic----->conversation

The Opener can be from hello to hey. Also the opener can be a question or even a joke if she gets the joke.

The Topic it can be about anything as long as it not about death, sex ( not all girls who you first talk to want to talk about sex )and other things ( I forgot)

The Conversation make sure you do 75% of listening and show that you are listening. Women will talk and talk as long as you listen. Avoid 2 things, talking way too much about yourself and talking way too much about other people.


Good job man :up: you are well on your way to becoming a DJ. Getting in the field is 1 of the best ways to become a real DJ don't stop kept apporaching.
 
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