"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MrConfidence

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I'm starting an approach journal, where I'm basically going to store all of my approaches, and ask how I can improve them. I don't approach everyday, so don't be surprised if I don't update this for like 2 or 3 weeks at a time. You guys can reply, and give advice, but the purpose of this is to just have a place to post my approaches. And if no one replies to the topic, great, because I didn't post this topic solely so people could reply.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Werent you leaving?
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
good luck. Why didnt you put it in the Discussion Forum though?
Well, Vincent's being stupid, apparently I'm an attention whore(And yet, this topic only has ONE post, and I'm still updating it). Nothing new yet, but come next week, I'll try and make some approaches, and update this.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it might of been a beter idea to start this after you made one approach, but its you so approach away big man.
 
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