"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MrConfidence

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I'm starting an approach journal, where I'm basically going to store all of my approaches, and ask how I can improve them. I don't approach everyday, so don't be surprised if I don't update this for like 2 or 3 weeks at a time. You guys can reply, and give advice, but the purpose of this is to just have a place to post my approaches. And if no one replies to the topic, great, because I didn't post this topic solely so people could reply.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Werent you leaving?
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
good luck. Why didnt you put it in the Discussion Forum though?
Well, Vincent's being stupid, apparently I'm an attention whore(And yet, this topic only has ONE post, and I'm still updating it). Nothing new yet, but come next week, I'll try and make some approaches, and update this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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it might of been a beter idea to start this after you made one approach, but its you so approach away big man.
 
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