"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MrConfidence

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I'm starting an approach journal, where I'm basically going to store all of my approaches, and ask how I can improve them. I don't approach everyday, so don't be surprised if I don't update this for like 2 or 3 weeks at a time. You guys can reply, and give advice, but the purpose of this is to just have a place to post my approaches. And if no one replies to the topic, great, because I didn't post this topic solely so people could reply.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Werent you leaving?
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
good luck. Why didnt you put it in the Discussion Forum though?
Well, Vincent's being stupid, apparently I'm an attention whore(And yet, this topic only has ONE post, and I'm still updating it). Nothing new yet, but come next week, I'll try and make some approaches, and update this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it might of been a beter idea to start this after you made one approach, but its you so approach away big man.
 
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