"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MrConfidence

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I'm starting an approach journal, where I'm basically going to store all of my approaches, and ask how I can improve them. I don't approach everyday, so don't be surprised if I don't update this for like 2 or 3 weeks at a time. You guys can reply, and give advice, but the purpose of this is to just have a place to post my approaches. And if no one replies to the topic, great, because I didn't post this topic solely so people could reply.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Werent you leaving?
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
good luck. Why didnt you put it in the Discussion Forum though?
Well, Vincent's being stupid, apparently I'm an attention whore(And yet, this topic only has ONE post, and I'm still updating it). Nothing new yet, but come next week, I'll try and make some approaches, and update this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it might of been a beter idea to start this after you made one approach, but its you so approach away big man.
 
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