"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Approach in a pub/club

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She will have to have a drink in her hand for this to work. You can use this as an opener.

Say you are out at a pub/club, you ''accidently'' physically bump into a hb.Or even if she accidently bumps into you, you say

Guy : (say with a ****y smile?)''Hey, i didn't know drinking was a contact sport!''

And go from there......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I always use this whenever i get the oppurtunity when i go out.
You almost always get a laugh out of them, which i think is a great way to open.
 
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It might best work if she bumps into you than you bumping into her. Great opener though.
 
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Agreed amoka, but i still use it either way.

If anyone uses this, post back how you went.

USE IT PPL! IT WORKS:)
 
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cheers for sharing ill give it a try
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I will try it too.

In very busy and packed clubs, i.e. standing room only, I always get a laugh with "I can't believe I came here to relax and unwind! What was I thinking?!?"
 
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