"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Approach in a pub/club

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She will have to have a drink in her hand for this to work. You can use this as an opener.

Say you are out at a pub/club, you ''accidently'' physically bump into a hb.Or even if she accidently bumps into you, you say

Guy : (say with a ****y smile?)''Hey, i didn't know drinking was a contact sport!''

And go from there......
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I always use this whenever i get the oppurtunity when i go out.
You almost always get a laugh out of them, which i think is a great way to open.
 
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It might best work if she bumps into you than you bumping into her. Great opener though.
 
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Agreed amoka, but i still use it either way.

If anyone uses this, post back how you went.

USE IT PPL! IT WORKS:)
 
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cheers for sharing ill give it a try
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I will try it too.

In very busy and packed clubs, i.e. standing room only, I always get a laugh with "I can't believe I came here to relax and unwind! What was I thinking?!?"
 
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