"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Approach in a pub/club

elemenohpee

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She will have to have a drink in her hand for this to work. You can use this as an opener.

Say you are out at a pub/club, you ''accidently'' physically bump into a hb.Or even if she accidently bumps into you, you say

Guy : (say with a ****y smile?)''Hey, i didn't know drinking was a contact sport!''

And go from there......
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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elemenohpee

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I always use this whenever i get the oppurtunity when i go out.
You almost always get a laugh out of them, which i think is a great way to open.
 

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It might best work if she bumps into you than you bumping into her. Great opener though.
 

elemenohpee

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Agreed amoka, but i still use it either way.

If anyone uses this, post back how you went.

USE IT PPL! IT WORKS:)
 

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cheers for sharing ill give it a try
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I will try it too.

In very busy and packed clubs, i.e. standing room only, I always get a laugh with "I can't believe I came here to relax and unwind! What was I thinking?!?"
 
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