"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Approach in a pub/club

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She will have to have a drink in her hand for this to work. You can use this as an opener.

Say you are out at a pub/club, you ''accidently'' physically bump into a hb.Or even if she accidently bumps into you, you say

Guy : (say with a ****y smile?)''Hey, i didn't know drinking was a contact sport!''

And go from there......
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I always use this whenever i get the oppurtunity when i go out.
You almost always get a laugh out of them, which i think is a great way to open.
 
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It might best work if she bumps into you than you bumping into her. Great opener though.
 
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Agreed amoka, but i still use it either way.

If anyone uses this, post back how you went.

USE IT PPL! IT WORKS:)
 
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cheers for sharing ill give it a try
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I will try it too.

In very busy and packed clubs, i.e. standing room only, I always get a laugh with "I can't believe I came here to relax and unwind! What was I thinking?!?"
 
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