"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Approach all the women you can, play the numbers game

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You've probably heard the phrase "dating is a numbers game". It's true.

The more women you approach, the more you'll find who are interested, and the more you'll sleep with. No matter how good or bad you are with women, this holds true. The more women approach, the better you'll get, and the less approach anxiety you'll have.

Rejection isn't bad, provided you learn from it. A while back, I approached about 50 women over the course of a week to try to fix my approach anxiety. It worked. I got rid of my approach anxiety, got numbers, and although I got far more rejections, they weren't horrible. It's not like a woman will kick you in the balls for talking to her and asking her out.

Don't be afraid of rejection. By not approaching, you've automatically got a failure rate of 100%. You have nothing to lose.

Read these threads too:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=55957
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?&p=1495533

Approach like crazy. Every woman you can. Even if you're shy, or awkward, or a virgin, or never been on a date, each rejection brings you closer to success.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rejection is better then regret.

-Pook
 
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