"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Approach all the women you can, play the numbers game

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You've probably heard the phrase "dating is a numbers game". It's true.

The more women you approach, the more you'll find who are interested, and the more you'll sleep with. No matter how good or bad you are with women, this holds true. The more women approach, the better you'll get, and the less approach anxiety you'll have.

Rejection isn't bad, provided you learn from it. A while back, I approached about 50 women over the course of a week to try to fix my approach anxiety. It worked. I got rid of my approach anxiety, got numbers, and although I got far more rejections, they weren't horrible. It's not like a woman will kick you in the balls for talking to her and asking her out.

Don't be afraid of rejection. By not approaching, you've automatically got a failure rate of 100%. You have nothing to lose.

Read these threads too:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=55957
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?&p=1495533

Approach like crazy. Every woman you can. Even if you're shy, or awkward, or a virgin, or never been on a date, each rejection brings you closer to success.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rejection is better then regret.

-Pook
 
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