"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Approach all the women you can, play the numbers game

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You've probably heard the phrase "dating is a numbers game". It's true.

The more women you approach, the more you'll find who are interested, and the more you'll sleep with. No matter how good or bad you are with women, this holds true. The more women approach, the better you'll get, and the less approach anxiety you'll have.

Rejection isn't bad, provided you learn from it. A while back, I approached about 50 women over the course of a week to try to fix my approach anxiety. It worked. I got rid of my approach anxiety, got numbers, and although I got far more rejections, they weren't horrible. It's not like a woman will kick you in the balls for talking to her and asking her out.

Don't be afraid of rejection. By not approaching, you've automatically got a failure rate of 100%. You have nothing to lose.

Read these threads too:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=55957
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?&p=1495533

Approach like crazy. Every woman you can. Even if you're shy, or awkward, or a virgin, or never been on a date, each rejection brings you closer to success.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rejection is better then regret.

-Pook
 
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