"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Approach all the women you can, play the numbers game

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You've probably heard the phrase "dating is a numbers game". It's true.

The more women you approach, the more you'll find who are interested, and the more you'll sleep with. No matter how good or bad you are with women, this holds true. The more women approach, the better you'll get, and the less approach anxiety you'll have.

Rejection isn't bad, provided you learn from it. A while back, I approached about 50 women over the course of a week to try to fix my approach anxiety. It worked. I got rid of my approach anxiety, got numbers, and although I got far more rejections, they weren't horrible. It's not like a woman will kick you in the balls for talking to her and asking her out.

Don't be afraid of rejection. By not approaching, you've automatically got a failure rate of 100%. You have nothing to lose.

Read these threads too:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=55957
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?&p=1495533

Approach like crazy. Every woman you can. Even if you're shy, or awkward, or a virgin, or never been on a date, each rejection brings you closer to success.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rejection is better then regret.

-Pook
 
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