Recently i read some posts about No Contact theory and that stayed in my mind. Earlier this week, i started to chat with a nice girl in the gym, asked her number, she gave me and i asked her to go out with me, so we could walk in a nice place and chat. She read the message i sent about the invite, and gave a "im busy" excuse, if it were another time in my life, i would insist a lot or totally give up, but this time i offered the "then you should recommend a time in which you'll be cool", and she answered with another excuse. Okay, i saw what i had to, and i did my part, so i simply delete the chat and several days go by, and today she offered that we should hang out and gave the place and time, i went out with her and had a good time.
I'm still a rookie, so i cannot evaluate everything in this ocasion, but one thing i know worked was the no contact rule. I ask for the older and wiser DJs to enlight me about she giving the time, place, etc... Any input will be welcome.
I'm still a rookie, so i cannot evaluate everything in this ocasion, but one thing i know worked was the no contact rule. I ask for the older and wiser DJs to enlight me about she giving the time, place, etc... Any input will be welcome.