"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Appetite suppressants

Jariel

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Generally I am very disciplined when it comes to my diet. I don't touch fast food, cakes, alchohol or fried food. But one of my bad habits is eating late at night. I try not to, but for some reason I get extremely hungry towards the end of the day. I usually cook some chicken fillets, but these don't fill me up and I don't get the chance if I'm out. Otherwise I just fight through it, but it makes my evenings very uncomfortable.

So does anyone know of an effective way of suppressing my appetite a few hours before bed? I'd prefer to avoid slimming drugs.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jariel said:
Generally I am very disciplined when it comes to my diet. I don't touch fast food, cakes, alchohol or fried food. But one of my bad habits is eating late at night. I try not to, but for some reason I get extremely hungry towards the end of the day. I usually cook some chicken fillets, but these don't fill me up and I don't get the chance if I'm out. Otherwise I just fight through it, but it makes my evenings very uncomfortable.

So does anyone know of an effective way of suppressing my appetite a few hours before bed? I'd prefer to avoid slimming drugs.
Why is it bad to eat before bed? Have 1/2-1lb of the (lean) meat of your choice and half a lb of veg. (or adjust the quantities accordingly.. basically, if you fill up on veg you won't be hungry)
 

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That's not bad? I was led to believe you shouldn't eat anything 3 hours before bed, or is that just carbs?

I'll prepare some vegetables with my next supper then. Thanks again!
 

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Jariel said:
That's not bad? I was led to believe you shouldn't eat anything 3 hours before bed, or is that just carbs?

I'll prepare some vegetables with my next supper then. Thanks again!
gawd mate, if I didn't eat before bed I'd wake up starving in the middle of the night.

Carbs pre-bed are a no-no, that is correct. But 'not eating' before bed is foolish. You want a thermogenic meal to keep your metabolism up during the night so you can continue to recover, repair and burn fat during sleep - sleep slows down the metabolism usually, eating before bed counters this.

Lean protein, veggies and low amounts of fat (~15-20g for most people) is fine pre-bed.

Like a protein drink with some peanut butter, or a stir-fry with chicken and veg.
 

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There's nothing wrong with eating before bed. Usually when I wake up to take a tinkle in the middle of the night, I'll stumble into the kitchen and grab a couple knife fulls of peanut butter before I get back to sleep.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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