"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Appetite suppressants

Jariel

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Generally I am very disciplined when it comes to my diet. I don't touch fast food, cakes, alchohol or fried food. But one of my bad habits is eating late at night. I try not to, but for some reason I get extremely hungry towards the end of the day. I usually cook some chicken fillets, but these don't fill me up and I don't get the chance if I'm out. Otherwise I just fight through it, but it makes my evenings very uncomfortable.

So does anyone know of an effective way of suppressing my appetite a few hours before bed? I'd prefer to avoid slimming drugs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jariel said:
Generally I am very disciplined when it comes to my diet. I don't touch fast food, cakes, alchohol or fried food. But one of my bad habits is eating late at night. I try not to, but for some reason I get extremely hungry towards the end of the day. I usually cook some chicken fillets, but these don't fill me up and I don't get the chance if I'm out. Otherwise I just fight through it, but it makes my evenings very uncomfortable.

So does anyone know of an effective way of suppressing my appetite a few hours before bed? I'd prefer to avoid slimming drugs.
Why is it bad to eat before bed? Have 1/2-1lb of the (lean) meat of your choice and half a lb of veg. (or adjust the quantities accordingly.. basically, if you fill up on veg you won't be hungry)
 

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That's not bad? I was led to believe you shouldn't eat anything 3 hours before bed, or is that just carbs?

I'll prepare some vegetables with my next supper then. Thanks again!
 

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Jariel said:
That's not bad? I was led to believe you shouldn't eat anything 3 hours before bed, or is that just carbs?

I'll prepare some vegetables with my next supper then. Thanks again!
gawd mate, if I didn't eat before bed I'd wake up starving in the middle of the night.

Carbs pre-bed are a no-no, that is correct. But 'not eating' before bed is foolish. You want a thermogenic meal to keep your metabolism up during the night so you can continue to recover, repair and burn fat during sleep - sleep slows down the metabolism usually, eating before bed counters this.

Lean protein, veggies and low amounts of fat (~15-20g for most people) is fine pre-bed.

Like a protein drink with some peanut butter, or a stir-fry with chicken and veg.
 

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There's nothing wrong with eating before bed. Usually when I wake up to take a tinkle in the middle of the night, I'll stumble into the kitchen and grab a couple knife fulls of peanut butter before I get back to sleep.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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