mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
He has social presence in real life. It's just not displayed in facebook. Everyone in his social surroundings is aware of him.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Apparently, I'm strange because I am not on "social media"
- Thread starter RickTheToad
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Dude, how do I describe myself? I don't like or use social media. So I am less of a person because I am not materialistic and do not follow online gossip? Believe it or not, I know you may not understand, but humans survived millions of years before the advent of social media.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You are in social environments in your real life, correct?
RickTheToad
Moderator
Usually twice a week. If I have a date, that would be to an addition to that. It's more in the spring, summer and fall. Winter it's a bit tougher.