mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
He has social presence in real life. It's just not displayed in facebook. Everyone in his social surroundings is aware of him.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Apparently, I'm strange because I am not on "social media"
- Thread starter RickTheToad
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Dude, how do I describe myself? I don't like or use social media. So I am less of a person because I am not materialistic and do not follow online gossip? Believe it or not, I know you may not understand, but humans survived millions of years before the advent of social media.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You are in social environments in your real life, correct?
RickTheToad
Moderator
Usually twice a week. If I have a date, that would be to an addition to that. It's more in the spring, summer and fall. Winter it's a bit tougher.