Apology Advice

[slickaz]

fuk it seems the three plates i hate ive fvkd up **** wit all of them.lol

the last plate called me earlier and shes usually very funny.
we always exchange fire but in a fun way and laugh it off

anyway she said her mum wants her to get married to this other guy.
to which i said "Marriage even! wow!! good for you?"

she"Oh so ur just gonna let me get married to some other guy? fine i will"

me" um i umm..what the hell do i say man?! lol.."

so she changed topic but i cud tell she was still upset..

then later when she called she mocked me ant smtn n i said
"oh! you kno i shud just not talk to you if ur gonna mock me all the time"

she "ok..dont then.."

me thinkin its a joke "yeh, good riddance bad rubbish eh?"

she got mad over that
she "oh fine! u can get the big next..i can either act a ***** or just ignore you..pick one.."

me still thinkin it was a joke "yaaaaawn..uve said that before..new stuff!!!"

she hung up..

i text her back like "hey lets not be immature here, i was only jokin.hit me up sometime."

no reply..

do you think i should call and apologies?

if i call n apologies then i know i can get it back on track..but should i?

 

[slickaz]

Thanks bro..best advice for myself and the new guys

i think thats a good way to look at it..as in what i can control ill control the rest i wont care about..

good way to judge when to care n when not to.

ps: i left it, i didnt say netn, i was going to call after my meeting with clients.
but she called me and said hi, thats it..
i expressed to her that its smtn i couldnt do anything about, this idea of her marrying another guy, so what could i have possibily said that wouldnt have made it worse.
she asked what i meant..i walked her thru
if i had said NO you cant marry anyone, thats comin on too hard too controllin, im not that guy.
if i said yes you can, then that shows no interest
if i say upto you, that shows im not sure myself..

so i made a joke out of it by saying nothin really
i said "marriage even!good for you? like can be takin two ways as a question or a compliment..
then she apologised n said she shouldve given me a chance to explain and it was too quick to talk about marraige..
so i guess its cool.