Apologizing

[Freddy1]

Is it ever okay to apologize to a girl? Would it display lower social value if you did?

 

[Mr. Unique]

yes

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

Did you really screw up?

Yes? Apologize.

No? Don't apologize.

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

Did you really screw up?

Yes? Apologize.

No? Don't apologize.

It really depends. I personally don't think anything constructive comes out of apologizing. It will definitely lower your value to her, and if you did something so egregious that an apology is truly warranted, I think it would ring hollow anyway.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

I generally tell a girl "I'm not big on apologizing. If I screw up, I'd much rather fix it and make it up to you than tell you I'm sorry."

They buy it. It's true, but I rarely f*ck up enough to need to fix it.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

If you genuinely **** up, and genuinely regret doing it, then apologize.

otherwise, dont.

 

[dipset_mafia]

you can always get away from apologizing... you don't need to tell them you're not apologizing, or tell them you're going to make it up to them... continue on like nothing happened.. apologize once, and you'll have to apologize every time you do that same thing.. like being late, farting, forgetting, getting too drunk, lol, making stupid comments, etc...

coffee date:...
"you're late!"
"I see you've started without me, what kind did you get?" give her a smile and continue with your game.. she won't be pissed if you don't ALLOW her to feel like you've done something wrong by admitting it through apology.

apologize and u put an akward tone on things, like you owe her something.. fck that..

you break something of hers? offer to replace it, don't apologize... you need to cancel a date? just do it, you aren't really "sorry" are you?...

things that warrant an apology... ****ing her best friend, cheating period... killing her pet on purpose.. lol... kicking her brothers ass (sorry babe, he deserved that sh!t..) haha..

say anything to avoid the apology, short of lying.

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

I personally don't think anything constructive comes out of apologizing. It will definitely lower your value to her, .

Not if you have a strong enough frame.

Agree to disagree?

BTW, I don't recommend apologizing for trivial stuff or stupid girl drama.
We're on the same page there.

 

[Cod3r]

Make a big deaL about 'NOT' apologizing when you meet her...

She won't expect it... then when u really fvck up and do apologize she'll know you mean it since you NEVER apologize to anyone... $$$$


-Cod3r

 

[vorbis]

this is a weird question. First off, you obviously never apologies for trivial stuff. When it comes to something really serious, I'm in the middle.

If you apologise, unlike with a friend, she's liable to always remember it. As someone else said, its a DLV as it comes across as failing.

If you don't apologies for something serious, its a jerk move and if a friend acted like that to me I'd be pissed. With women though, not apologising seems to show dominance and can cause a lot of women to re-evaluate the situation, maybe he's not wrong. I don't like it but can't deny its effectiveness having seen friends keep gfs while doing **** that should get them dumpled. e.g cheating, being drunk all the time.

 

[Raikojo17]

Did you really screw up?

Yes? Apologize.

No? Don't apologize.

agreed. apologizing show's ur man enough to take blame and not place it on others. but only if u truely screwed up, not if she was the b!tch

 

[Bible_Belt]

You can apologize without using the words, "I'm sorry," which I think comes off better. my fault, my mistake. etc...