"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Apartment complex pick up

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I'm a new Southern Illinois University student :) . Feels good to get out of the home town!

I live in an apartment complex with four floors and 9 rooms on each level. I have 3 other room mates as many of the other inhabitants do.

I left the room to throw some stuff into the trash room.

I heard some alluring females voices coming from down stairs in the small lounge area. Something told me to say hello.

I leaned over the railing and uttered "What up girls!" They couldn't see me though.

They said "What's up" back. One of them said "Hey who are you? Show yourself."

"Oh, I'm sorry girl, I'm just to sexy for that!" I said this in a "funny" voice I guess you could say.

"Hey show yourself!!" one of them uttered.

I started on the way back to the room. And a sexy black girl ran up the stairs came running up the stairs looking to see who I was.

"Hey you! Don't run from me!"

I turned around and looked at her and faked running away from her for a second, then I approached and introduced myself. I greeted her and we exchanged names with some minor kino. I put out my hand cupped upwards and she put her hand on mine and I gently clasped it.

"So why did you talk like that in that voice" she asked.

"Oh I'm just messing around and having some fun I guess."

We chatted for about a minute about being new to the building and school. She asked what room I was from and I told her. She then told me what floor and room she was from. I asked her if I could stop by sometime and she said yeah. After that we said good bye and I went back to my room.

The whole thing was completely spontaneous and I acted on some instinct of some sort.

It felt good after I got the response that I did.

Might stop by her apartment in a day or two just to say what's up.

What do you guys think? What should I do next then? If you were in my shoes at least.

Peace.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thought I'd add something.


I'll stop by her place and see what shes been up and ask her hows she been. I'll ask her if she has been a student here before, if she has, then I'll ask her to give me a tour because I don't know my way around. If she is new here, well I'll think of something.
 

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Sort it out bruv ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hmm seems she gave me some false information. Hmmm.

I must of come across as a wierdo.

Oh well.

She wasn't in the room she said she was.
 
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