"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm a new Southern Illinois University student :) . Feels good to get out of the home town!

I live in an apartment complex with four floors and 9 rooms on each level. I have 3 other room mates as many of the other inhabitants do.

I left the room to throw some stuff into the trash room.

I heard some alluring females voices coming from down stairs in the small lounge area. Something told me to say hello.

I leaned over the railing and uttered "What up girls!" They couldn't see me though.

They said "What's up" back. One of them said "Hey who are you? Show yourself."

"Oh, I'm sorry girl, I'm just to sexy for that!" I said this in a "funny" voice I guess you could say.

"Hey show yourself!!" one of them uttered.

I started on the way back to the room. And a sexy black girl ran up the stairs came running up the stairs looking to see who I was.

"Hey you! Don't run from me!"

I turned around and looked at her and faked running away from her for a second, then I approached and introduced myself. I greeted her and we exchanged names with some minor kino. I put out my hand cupped upwards and she put her hand on mine and I gently clasped it.

"So why did you talk like that in that voice" she asked.

"Oh I'm just messing around and having some fun I guess."

We chatted for about a minute about being new to the building and school. She asked what room I was from and I told her. She then told me what floor and room she was from. I asked her if I could stop by sometime and she said yeah. After that we said good bye and I went back to my room.

The whole thing was completely spontaneous and I acted on some instinct of some sort.

It felt good after I got the response that I did.

Might stop by her apartment in a day or two just to say what's up.

What do you guys think? What should I do next then? If you were in my shoes at least.

Peace.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thought I'd add something.


I'll stop by her place and see what shes been up and ask her hows she been. I'll ask her if she has been a student here before, if she has, then I'll ask her to give me a tour because I don't know my way around. If she is new here, well I'll think of something.
 

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Sort it out bruv ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hmm seems she gave me some false information. Hmmm.

I must of come across as a wierdo.

Oh well.

She wasn't in the room she said she was.
 
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