"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyway to cover up BACNE?

Triple T

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So I'm accepted onto my school's swim team. Lots of people of all grades including alot of nice looking ladies.
Only problem is I have alot of BACNE on my back. Its annoying, because it ruins my confidence by a landslide.

Swim meets start in less than a month. And I've had scarring from scratching it in the past (I didn't know).
I've got dots all over my back now :(.

I'm just wondering if there is water-proof makeup to cover it up?
I don't think treatment will work fast enough but I'll start getting some of the benozyl peroxide and mosturizers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think you might need medication for this.

But I mainly suggest just don't give a **** about it and no one else will either.
 

Triple T

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Furyguy said:
I think you might need medication for this.

But I mainly suggest just don't give a **** about it and no one else will either.
Yea I was thinking that in the shower today.
I mean, honestly...a year from now, will this affect me? No.

So yea, I'll just not give a crap. And I was looking at it and its actually not that bad.

Thanks fellas
 

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dude dont do it, i had to take off my shirt for football hazing and people think you have some contagious disease... i highly highly suggest you dont do it, even if you play it off all cool, the rumor that you have some nasty infection will spread a lot faster than the "oh Triple T is cool w/ it, so we're cool w/ it" thing
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Triple T

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DamHE said:
dude dont do it, i had to take off my shirt for football hazing and people think you have some contagious disease... i highly highly suggest you dont do it, even if you play it off all cool, the rumor that you have some nasty infection will spread a lot faster than the "oh Triple T is cool w/ it, so we're cool w/ it" thing
eh, w/e
I could care less.
People would just be like "oh he has bacne...thats gross"
And that'll be the end of it. Its not like the whole school is going to look down on me.

Even if they did...**** them.
I live my life how I want.
I know I will regret not joining the swim team. So screw it. No Regrets.

Thanks though :cool:
 

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Accutane is the most hardcore bacne fighter. I suggest you go for that, but if you have sex while on it you will get X-Men babies.
 

HolyG

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Use vaseline or petroleum jelly on it - proven backne fighter.
 

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Mr. Red said:
Accutane is the most hardcore bacne fighter. I suggest you go for that, but if you have sex while on it you will get X-Men babies.
Having lil X-Men running around would be awesome might have to try some of that ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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