"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyway to cover up BACNE?

Triple T

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So I'm accepted onto my school's swim team. Lots of people of all grades including alot of nice looking ladies.
Only problem is I have alot of BACNE on my back. Its annoying, because it ruins my confidence by a landslide.

Swim meets start in less than a month. And I've had scarring from scratching it in the past (I didn't know).
I've got dots all over my back now :(.

I'm just wondering if there is water-proof makeup to cover it up?
I don't think treatment will work fast enough but I'll start getting some of the benozyl peroxide and mosturizers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Furyguy

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I think you might need medication for this.

But I mainly suggest just don't give a **** about it and no one else will either.
 

Triple T

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Furyguy said:
I think you might need medication for this.

But I mainly suggest just don't give a **** about it and no one else will either.
Yea I was thinking that in the shower today.
I mean, honestly...a year from now, will this affect me? No.

So yea, I'll just not give a crap. And I was looking at it and its actually not that bad.

Thanks fellas
 

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dude dont do it, i had to take off my shirt for football hazing and people think you have some contagious disease... i highly highly suggest you dont do it, even if you play it off all cool, the rumor that you have some nasty infection will spread a lot faster than the "oh Triple T is cool w/ it, so we're cool w/ it" thing
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Triple T

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DamHE said:
dude dont do it, i had to take off my shirt for football hazing and people think you have some contagious disease... i highly highly suggest you dont do it, even if you play it off all cool, the rumor that you have some nasty infection will spread a lot faster than the "oh Triple T is cool w/ it, so we're cool w/ it" thing
eh, w/e
I could care less.
People would just be like "oh he has bacne...thats gross"
And that'll be the end of it. Its not like the whole school is going to look down on me.

Even if they did...**** them.
I live my life how I want.
I know I will regret not joining the swim team. So screw it. No Regrets.

Thanks though :cool:
 

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Accutane is the most hardcore bacne fighter. I suggest you go for that, but if you have sex while on it you will get X-Men babies.
 

HolyG

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Use vaseline or petroleum jelly on it - proven backne fighter.
 

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Mr. Red said:
Accutane is the most hardcore bacne fighter. I suggest you go for that, but if you have sex while on it you will get X-Men babies.
Having lil X-Men running around would be awesome might have to try some of that ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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