"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyway to cover up BACNE?

Triple T

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So I'm accepted onto my school's swim team. Lots of people of all grades including alot of nice looking ladies.
Only problem is I have alot of BACNE on my back. Its annoying, because it ruins my confidence by a landslide.

Swim meets start in less than a month. And I've had scarring from scratching it in the past (I didn't know).
I've got dots all over my back now :(.

I'm just wondering if there is water-proof makeup to cover it up?
I don't think treatment will work fast enough but I'll start getting some of the benozyl peroxide and mosturizers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think you might need medication for this.

But I mainly suggest just don't give a **** about it and no one else will either.
 

Triple T

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Furyguy said:
I think you might need medication for this.

But I mainly suggest just don't give a **** about it and no one else will either.
Yea I was thinking that in the shower today.
I mean, honestly...a year from now, will this affect me? No.

So yea, I'll just not give a crap. And I was looking at it and its actually not that bad.

Thanks fellas
 

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dude dont do it, i had to take off my shirt for football hazing and people think you have some contagious disease... i highly highly suggest you dont do it, even if you play it off all cool, the rumor that you have some nasty infection will spread a lot faster than the "oh Triple T is cool w/ it, so we're cool w/ it" thing
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Triple T

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DamHE said:
dude dont do it, i had to take off my shirt for football hazing and people think you have some contagious disease... i highly highly suggest you dont do it, even if you play it off all cool, the rumor that you have some nasty infection will spread a lot faster than the "oh Triple T is cool w/ it, so we're cool w/ it" thing
eh, w/e
I could care less.
People would just be like "oh he has bacne...thats gross"
And that'll be the end of it. Its not like the whole school is going to look down on me.

Even if they did...**** them.
I live my life how I want.
I know I will regret not joining the swim team. So screw it. No Regrets.

Thanks though :cool:
 

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Accutane is the most hardcore bacne fighter. I suggest you go for that, but if you have sex while on it you will get X-Men babies.
 

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Use vaseline or petroleum jelly on it - proven backne fighter.
 

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Mr. Red said:
Accutane is the most hardcore bacne fighter. I suggest you go for that, but if you have sex while on it you will get X-Men babies.
Having lil X-Men running around would be awesome might have to try some of that ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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