"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anything that keep bartenders from giving their number?

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So yesterday I was at the disco and this one hb8 bartender was tending me shots.

I always asked her for strong ones, she was being nice and smiley (thats her job i know).

After the last one I go dancing and then I go back and ask her "Well you're still on time to give me your number"

She then laughs and answers "Sorry, we can't give our numbers in the disco yet if I see you outside I'll give it to you."

So I thought to myself that this was prolly bull so I laugh back smile and say "Well Goodbye and thanks for the drinks"

But now i'm wonderin, is it a rule in some discos that bartenders aren't allowed to give out their numbers?

Btw i think this really was my first approach using what i learned around here, How do you think I did?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nice job asking for it, but her response was probably bullsh1t

I usually just forget about asking out waitresses/bartenders nowadays (I've done it once) because they're getting paid to be nice to you.
 
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yeah and since it's a disco talking it's really hard, so it comes all back to attitude or aspect. (wich i don't excel)

so anyways, is it just me or does the rush of asking targets like that for their number just feel good? :D
 
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