"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anything that keep bartenders from giving their number?

Royal Ace

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So yesterday I was at the disco and this one hb8 bartender was tending me shots.

I always asked her for strong ones, she was being nice and smiley (thats her job i know).

After the last one I go dancing and then I go back and ask her "Well you're still on time to give me your number"

She then laughs and answers "Sorry, we can't give our numbers in the disco yet if I see you outside I'll give it to you."

So I thought to myself that this was prolly bull so I laugh back smile and say "Well Goodbye and thanks for the drinks"

But now i'm wonderin, is it a rule in some discos that bartenders aren't allowed to give out their numbers?

Btw i think this really was my first approach using what i learned around here, How do you think I did?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Obsidian

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nice job asking for it, but her response was probably bullsh1t

I usually just forget about asking out waitresses/bartenders nowadays (I've done it once) because they're getting paid to be nice to you.
 

Royal Ace

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yeah and since it's a disco talking it's really hard, so it comes all back to attitude or aspect. (wich i don't excel)

so anyways, is it just me or does the rush of asking targets like that for their number just feel good? :D
 
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