"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Anything that keep bartenders from giving their number?

Royal Ace

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So yesterday I was at the disco and this one hb8 bartender was tending me shots.

I always asked her for strong ones, she was being nice and smiley (thats her job i know).

After the last one I go dancing and then I go back and ask her "Well you're still on time to give me your number"

She then laughs and answers "Sorry, we can't give our numbers in the disco yet if I see you outside I'll give it to you."

So I thought to myself that this was prolly bull so I laugh back smile and say "Well Goodbye and thanks for the drinks"

But now i'm wonderin, is it a rule in some discos that bartenders aren't allowed to give out their numbers?

Btw i think this really was my first approach using what i learned around here, How do you think I did?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Obsidian

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nice job asking for it, but her response was probably bullsh1t

I usually just forget about asking out waitresses/bartenders nowadays (I've done it once) because they're getting paid to be nice to you.
 

Royal Ace

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yeah and since it's a disco talking it's really hard, so it comes all back to attitude or aspect. (wich i don't excel)

so anyways, is it just me or does the rush of asking targets like that for their number just feel good? :D
 
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