"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone want to fertilize this harridan's frozen eggs?

MatureDJ

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Ashley Marrero isn’t married and doesn’t have kids. And she has a message for women just like her: You can still have it all.
The 43-year-old feels a deep sense of satisfaction from her job as a sales representative for a maker of medical devices, which brings her into contact with patients. And she relishes all of the lifestyle and financial freedoms that come with being a single, child-free woman in a well-paying job. That includes an apartment in New York City, a new beach house on the Jersey Shore, and frequent travel for pleasure as well as work.
“I love my life and feel very fulfilled,” says Marrero, who froze her eggs in 2018 to keep her options open. “I love children, and I love all my friends’ children. But I don’t know if I would love my life with children.”
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fvck no...and then have some crazy ass court tell you are required to pay child support? Not taking that chance
 

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Would not fertilize. She's not fat and an adequate face, so she will have no problems finding men to have sex with her, even at her advanced age. Because she's childless, she'd also be attractive to similarly aged childless men and some older men with grown children.

I also do not understand what is so deeply satisfying about a corporate job as a sales representative for a maker of medical devices. Giving up having kids when you want them for a meaningless job sounds like faulty decision making to me.

She has also had a long window available to have children. At 43, she's been able to have kids for 27 years. She finished college as a 22 year old in 2001 and had decent corporate jobs since then (per her LinkedIn), so she's been in at least an adequate place to handle having children for 21 years. It is amazing that she's been reasonably attractive and an adult for 25 years and hasn't managed to find a husband and have babies.
 
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