"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hyper2010

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Odd situation here guys...

Been talking/chatting to a HB8 for the last 3 weeks. Tried getting her to come out with me 2 weeks ago, but her kid was ill....tried getting her out last weekend, her aunt had an operation...... Was supposed to be going out with her this Friday and she has not spoke/text etc all day, plus she has deleted me off Facebook. She had vanished into thin air.

Not really sure what happened, but starting to think those other really sure what's happened but starting to think those other reasons may have been fake... I also feel like I've been given the brush off!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hyper2010 said:
Odd situation here guys...

Been talking/chatting to a HB8 for the last 3 weeks. Tried getting her to come out with me 2 weeks ago, but her kid was ill....tried getting her out last weekend, her aunt had an operation...... Was supposed to be going out with her this Friday and she has not spoke/text etc all day, plus she has deleted me off Facebook. She had vanished into thin air.

Not really sure what happened, but starting to think those other really sure what's happened but starting to think those other reasons may have been fake... I also feel like I've been given the brush off!
Not really odd at all. You were option #126 aka only if the other 125 guys aren't available and I'm feeling horny but only if both those conditions were met.

If it was Brad Pitt do you think she'd cancel with kid being ill? Hell no, she'd figure out a way to get her mom or a relative/someone she trusted to make sure the child was taken care of. Unless the kid needs urgent care or is extremely ill she wouldn't cancel a date with a guy she's really into.

Her aunt?!? Clearly you have to see that she is making excuses becuase is incapable of saying no, but she wants you to get the she's not itnerested.

Either she's extremely unlucky or clearly she's not into you.

You should be very sure of what happened ... she was not interested.

Why are you chatting for three weeks? I know it is literal but you should have conversed for 10 minutes or less asked her out and forgot about her when she said her kid was ill.


This is the reason why woman get the emntality they can pull this type of crap and its why the continue to pull this crap because don't drop them like a bad habit the first time she shows disinterest.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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