"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hyper2010

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Odd situation here guys...

Been talking/chatting to a HB8 for the last 3 weeks. Tried getting her to come out with me 2 weeks ago, but her kid was ill....tried getting her out last weekend, her aunt had an operation...... Was supposed to be going out with her this Friday and she has not spoke/text etc all day, plus she has deleted me off Facebook. She had vanished into thin air.

Not really sure what happened, but starting to think those other really sure what's happened but starting to think those other reasons may have been fake... I also feel like I've been given the brush off!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The_411

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Hyper2010 said:
Odd situation here guys...

Been talking/chatting to a HB8 for the last 3 weeks. Tried getting her to come out with me 2 weeks ago, but her kid was ill....tried getting her out last weekend, her aunt had an operation...... Was supposed to be going out with her this Friday and she has not spoke/text etc all day, plus she has deleted me off Facebook. She had vanished into thin air.

Not really sure what happened, but starting to think those other really sure what's happened but starting to think those other reasons may have been fake... I also feel like I've been given the brush off!
Not really odd at all. You were option #126 aka only if the other 125 guys aren't available and I'm feeling horny but only if both those conditions were met.

If it was Brad Pitt do you think she'd cancel with kid being ill? Hell no, she'd figure out a way to get her mom or a relative/someone she trusted to make sure the child was taken care of. Unless the kid needs urgent care or is extremely ill she wouldn't cancel a date with a guy she's really into.

Her aunt?!? Clearly you have to see that she is making excuses becuase is incapable of saying no, but she wants you to get the she's not itnerested.

Either she's extremely unlucky or clearly she's not into you.

You should be very sure of what happened ... she was not interested.

Why are you chatting for three weeks? I know it is literal but you should have conversed for 10 minutes or less asked her out and forgot about her when she said her kid was ill.


This is the reason why woman get the emntality they can pull this type of crap and its why the continue to pull this crap because don't drop them like a bad habit the first time she shows disinterest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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