"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Odd situation here guys...

Been talking/chatting to a HB8 for the last 3 weeks. Tried getting her to come out with me 2 weeks ago, but her kid was ill....tried getting her out last weekend, her aunt had an operation...... Was supposed to be going out with her this Friday and she has not spoke/text etc all day, plus she has deleted me off Facebook. She had vanished into thin air.

Not really sure what happened, but starting to think those other really sure what's happened but starting to think those other reasons may have been fake... I also feel like I've been given the brush off!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hyper2010 said:
Odd situation here guys...

Been talking/chatting to a HB8 for the last 3 weeks. Tried getting her to come out with me 2 weeks ago, but her kid was ill....tried getting her out last weekend, her aunt had an operation...... Was supposed to be going out with her this Friday and she has not spoke/text etc all day, plus she has deleted me off Facebook. She had vanished into thin air.

Not really sure what happened, but starting to think those other really sure what's happened but starting to think those other reasons may have been fake... I also feel like I've been given the brush off!
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Not really odd at all. You were option #126 aka only if the other 125 guys aren't available and I'm feeling horny but only if both those conditions were met.

If it was Brad Pitt do you think she'd cancel with kid being ill? Hell no, she'd figure out a way to get her mom or a relative/someone she trusted to make sure the child was taken care of. Unless the kid needs urgent care or is extremely ill she wouldn't cancel a date with a guy she's really into.

Her aunt?!? Clearly you have to see that she is making excuses becuase is incapable of saying no, but she wants you to get the she's not itnerested.

Either she's extremely unlucky or clearly she's not into you.

You should be very sure of what happened ... she was not interested.

Why are you chatting for three weeks? I know it is literal but you should have conversed for 10 minutes or less asked her out and forgot about her when she said her kid was ill.


This is the reason why woman get the emntality they can pull this type of crap and its why the continue to pull this crap because don't drop them like a bad habit the first time she shows disinterest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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