"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hyper2010

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Odd situation here guys...

Been talking/chatting to a HB8 for the last 3 weeks. Tried getting her to come out with me 2 weeks ago, but her kid was ill....tried getting her out last weekend, her aunt had an operation...... Was supposed to be going out with her this Friday and she has not spoke/text etc all day, plus she has deleted me off Facebook. She had vanished into thin air.

Not really sure what happened, but starting to think those other really sure what's happened but starting to think those other reasons may have been fake... I also feel like I've been given the brush off!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The_411

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Hyper2010 said:
Odd situation here guys...

Been talking/chatting to a HB8 for the last 3 weeks. Tried getting her to come out with me 2 weeks ago, but her kid was ill....tried getting her out last weekend, her aunt had an operation...... Was supposed to be going out with her this Friday and she has not spoke/text etc all day, plus she has deleted me off Facebook. She had vanished into thin air.

Not really sure what happened, but starting to think those other really sure what's happened but starting to think those other reasons may have been fake... I also feel like I've been given the brush off!
Not really odd at all. You were option #126 aka only if the other 125 guys aren't available and I'm feeling horny but only if both those conditions were met.

If it was Brad Pitt do you think she'd cancel with kid being ill? Hell no, she'd figure out a way to get her mom or a relative/someone she trusted to make sure the child was taken care of. Unless the kid needs urgent care or is extremely ill she wouldn't cancel a date with a guy she's really into.

Her aunt?!? Clearly you have to see that she is making excuses becuase is incapable of saying no, but she wants you to get the she's not itnerested.

Either she's extremely unlucky or clearly she's not into you.

You should be very sure of what happened ... she was not interested.

Why are you chatting for three weeks? I know it is literal but you should have conversed for 10 minutes or less asked her out and forgot about her when she said her kid was ill.


This is the reason why woman get the emntality they can pull this type of crap and its why the continue to pull this crap because don't drop them like a bad habit the first time she shows disinterest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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