Solomon
Master Don Juan
Lol that guy has to be a troll, unless you on a sugar daddy website saying your rich makes you look like a insecure doucebag
Your value comes in forms of your looks and if you are able to display high value
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Anyone try the Bumble App yet?
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Your value comes in forms of your looks and if you are able to display high value
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Here is a tip-
Every 30 days or so, deactivate your account and do a restart. You will get a lot of matches from chicks who probably skimmed over you initially.
Change your pics, update a little on your bio, do the restart.
I've already smashed 2 chicks that I didnt match with the first time after doing a restart a week ago.
Every 30 days or so, deactivate your account and do a restart. You will get a lot of matches from chicks who probably skimmed over you initially.
Change your pics, update a little on your bio, do the restart.
I've already smashed 2 chicks that I didnt match with the first time after doing a restart a week ago.
Bumble is great if you are a good looking guy and know how to present or market yourself online i.e. Good pics/profile
I know a guy 39, lean not muscular but he has "that look"
In the midwest looking like this will get you toons of poon
He's slaying girls left and right
as for myself? Bumble has been a complete failure
Depends on what "midwest" you're talking about, a handsome ethnic guy can do REALLY WELL with women in states like Minnesota and Wisconsin. I had 100+ Tinder matches a couple years ago when I was in Minneapolis, most were white and above a 7 in the looks department and I am an Asian guy, granted not average looking but still, being white is not mandatory.
If we're talking Missouri, Nebraska, or Kansas then I agree.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
I'm in Minneapolis.. As a black guy. Online dating sucks. Do way better in the field or social circle gaming
From my experience I legitimately believe that if looks are equal, a handsome minority can do just as well as a handsome white guy (at times even better) on the online dating scene in Minneapolis. Now if you're fat or out of shape, then I understand but a Jeremy Meeks or Rob Evans type of black guy can absolutely clean up.
Most successful guy I knew in the city with a Punjabi guy who could grow a nice beard, had six pack abs, and took good pics.
Your pic was of Chris Hemsworth btw, a guy that handsome can get hot girls anywhere on the planet.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Same could be said for Jeremy Meeks and Rob Evans can pull anywhere. Online dating for a black and colored guys is all about looks. Minneapolis girls love black guys hence I'm going uptown tonight!
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Online dating for guys in general is all about looks bro.
Minneapolis girls seem to love going for minorities in general lol, guess it's because the state is white, safe, and they haven't been hit with a ton of illegal immigrants and trashy refugees like a lot of other areas have. Lets hope it stays this way so cool minorities can score because I sure as h3ll do not want this place to end up like Toronto!
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Really? weird cause I have heard nothing decent things baout Toronto I know feminism is crazy up there
But all my black friends have done well there according to them
black guys definitely do well in Toronto and just Canada in general, non-black minorities (Asians, Indians, and Arabians) struggle
What I noticed about Minnesota was that non-black minorities were doing quite well too, as an Asian guy I had it tough in Toronto but did better in Minneapolis than anywhere else in the country.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Then spin both. Thats the great thing about "dating". Play the field my man.
And a little tip- it certainly doesnt HURT when you let them both know that you are seeing other people. Amazingly, if they are high interest, they will give you their best shot to try and isolate you.
Have fun with it and remember:
2 is better than none!
