"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone play a musical instrument?

SmoothTalker

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No Oboe, but I do play the Alto Sax. I also play piano, but not seriously, just when I'm in the mood.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dentalfloss

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
I'm a proffessional singer/songwriter/guitarist and I front my own rock band. I won't tell you who, but some of the Canadian DJ's on here have heard us; and if not, you will soon.

I also play piano, bass, drums, and I produce alot of up and coming artists in my spare time.

It's great to see so many musicians on here. Music is the universal language..... plus it will get you laid hahahahaha.


The Bad Ass Canadian
did you win the annual songwriting contest?
 

CobaltBlue

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Electric Guitar, and also aspiring to play drums.

ROck, BLues, Metal, Rock n' roll, Punk
 

sfalexi

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can't think of a user name,

Don't know if you caught it, but I play clarinet. I'm pretty serious about it too. I'm probably gonna major in clarinet in college and see where it takes me.

Alexi
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bilogomja

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I thoroughly enjoy playing on my guitar
 

KC_Seductive

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Originally posted by Don Ronny
My favorite musical instrument is the ****oris.
I'm a guitarist. I've always loved guitar licks.

I like ****oris licks too.
 
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