"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone play a musical instrument?

SmoothTalker

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No Oboe, but I do play the Alto Sax. I also play piano, but not seriously, just when I'm in the mood.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dentalfloss

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
I'm a proffessional singer/songwriter/guitarist and I front my own rock band. I won't tell you who, but some of the Canadian DJ's on here have heard us; and if not, you will soon.

I also play piano, bass, drums, and I produce alot of up and coming artists in my spare time.

It's great to see so many musicians on here. Music is the universal language..... plus it will get you laid hahahahaha.


The Bad Ass Canadian
did you win the annual songwriting contest?
 

CobaltBlue

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Electric Guitar, and also aspiring to play drums.

ROck, BLues, Metal, Rock n' roll, Punk
 

sfalexi

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can't think of a user name,

Don't know if you caught it, but I play clarinet. I'm pretty serious about it too. I'm probably gonna major in clarinet in college and see where it takes me.

Alexi
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bilogomja

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I thoroughly enjoy playing on my guitar
 

KC_Seductive

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Originally posted by Don Ronny
My favorite musical instrument is the ****oris.
I'm a guitarist. I've always loved guitar licks.

I like ****oris licks too.
 
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