"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone play a musical instrument?

SmoothTalker

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No Oboe, but I do play the Alto Sax. I also play piano, but not seriously, just when I'm in the mood.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dentalfloss

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
I'm a proffessional singer/songwriter/guitarist and I front my own rock band. I won't tell you who, but some of the Canadian DJ's on here have heard us; and if not, you will soon.

I also play piano, bass, drums, and I produce alot of up and coming artists in my spare time.

It's great to see so many musicians on here. Music is the universal language..... plus it will get you laid hahahahaha.


The Bad Ass Canadian
did you win the annual songwriting contest?
 

CobaltBlue

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Electric Guitar, and also aspiring to play drums.

ROck, BLues, Metal, Rock n' roll, Punk
 

sfalexi

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can't think of a user name,

Don't know if you caught it, but I play clarinet. I'm pretty serious about it too. I'm probably gonna major in clarinet in college and see where it takes me.

Alexi
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bilogomja

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I thoroughly enjoy playing on my guitar
 

KC_Seductive

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Originally posted by Don Ronny
My favorite musical instrument is the ****oris.
I'm a guitarist. I've always loved guitar licks.

I like ****oris licks too.
 
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