You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yes, I think that men have realised that giving women free attention gets them nowhere. Women still get off on the number of followers and all seem to think that they can make a career out of posing and sitting on their butts, but as far as I'm concerned Instagram "models" are just free material for masturbation purposes only and if I see a picture that doesn't turn me on I unfollow instantly and I never like their photos (unless perhaps accidentally whilst I'm doing something else).I dont know if this a light bulb moment for men, But i've noticed when an everyday woman posts selfies, the thirsty comments have all but vanished, and 70% of the likes are coming from women
I also noticed a few women put covert "help" status's the other day, and it was met with tumbleweed.
is something happening out there are men waking up, ?
observation of the last fortnight
Yea I thought it was going down until I looked at a few social media platforms. Seen a few simps proudly call themselves 'simps' for a girl.Men are still thirsty and simping. That hasn't changed. OnlyFans is simp-land. Men are still swiping on apps and acting thirsty on apps. Men are still trying to slide into DMs on Instagram.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
no single moms in my area can get commitment, ....something is happening somewhereMen are still thirsty and simping.
There is finally social shaming on men that get single moms, Im sorry for the kids who are the first victims of the cvnt but it should be clear to any woman that fvcking around comes with conseguences and those conseguences are not white knights and welfare checks.no single moms in my area can get commitment, ....something is happening somewhere
Agreed on average. The importance of high T and avoiding estrogen and exo-estrogen away.Man's peak is somewhere between 34 to 38 (on average) and health status does matter.
I read estrogenation. The amount of low T and high esyrogenics in EVERYTHING explains the cucks of the day.A man getting Botox? Wow that’s a new low. The crash is coming for the guy ? Then what? Hopefully he will find SoSuave lol
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Even if we get rid of the boomers and the overwhelming cost of their healthcare and retirement, we will have such cost on tax payers to be kept due to all the spinsters that no longer are fed and clothed from their missing husbands.I've noticed as well. All I see is other women stepping up where the white knight used to. Perhaps all the men have started to learn that complimenting women doesn't stop their d1ck from getting glued to their hand. What I've also been finding is that men are generally checking out of relationship hotel. They're not getting laid from complimenting women and they're seeing all the bat5hit crazy bytches out there and are instead focusing on working their ass off and indulging in their own hobbies and lifestyles. I've said it before that the population is going to decrease over the next little while with all the boomers dying while the trannies and men opt out of procreation.