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I was lurking in the purple pill discussion sub reddit and someone posted a recent study showing that the number of women that were not having sex has risen at the same rate as the number of men reporting that they are not having sex, both were a little over 22%. I thought that eventually men would start to wake up in large enough numbers that it would start to have an impact but I thought it would be a few years. I was wrong on my timeline, I have noticed for about the last year and a half to two years women reacting more aggressive towards me in a positive way. The change has been the same through all age groups. Social media and OLD gave women great advantages over men at first but men are highly adaptive and used the internet to gain information and figure things out. The MGTOWs and the red pilled men are not the once having the greatest impact , it's the guys that are MGTOW and red pilled without even knowing it. When the incels complain no one gives a fvck, but when guys with any value start to walk away that's when things start to change, just look at the social media posts of women denouncing feminism and actually calling for changes to family laws to help men. These are the early adopters that are seeing the writing on the wall. Remember the plan to ride the CC and eventually trap a beta bux only works if men are ignorant of the plan and go along with it, when men wake up and say fvck no to that plan it collapses.
Its painting as misogynist or sexiest by having a discussion.

Its impossible to not notice. There's a Jeff of amazon divorce raped by now richest woman ever. Again, due to divorce rape. There's no ambivalence here. Its plain black and white.

A man either pulls or he doesn't. Its then a question, is he getting her best? More often, he is not.

There's a reason for Peter pan syndrome. Its not ideal but what option is there but cuck?

Red pill men don't approach. Mgtow are usually divorce raped. Both got red pill rage. There's knowing female nature and acting accordingly. There's red pill godfather with the SMV chart and content on epiphany phase. Who did he marry?

There's so many beating the chest. Very few to none living it. There's a lot of Rooshv hate but he's still out there.

I don't have a solution. I opt out of marriage. I approach. I pull. There's a target demographic of top form SMV 18 -23. Not rump roast. Or what most men call wife today.
 

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I think another factor too was the emergence of the pua era when guys were more forthcoming toward women being told to approach and chase to some degree. Men constantly refined their data via open collaboration and found previous methods antiquated and ineffective. Like someone had mentioned, female manipulation has been mapped out mostly giving men the wisdom to avoid falsely pretensed traps. Along with men targeted social injustices and the metoo movements, men have naturally tampered back.
 

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I dont know if this a light bulb moment for men, But i've noticed when an everyday woman posts selfies, the thirsty comments have all but vanished, and 70% of the likes are coming from women

I also noticed a few women put covert "help" status's the other day, and it was met with tumbleweed.

is something happening out there are men waking up, ?

observation of the last fortnight
I've noticed this too. And check out the comment section on youtube vids. Men are getting ruthless
 

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If you told people 100 years ago that women would eventually have their own CATALOG of exhibit-style suggestive photographs to advertise themselves for the observers enjoyment they would think everyone in the future has become a sex worker

That's basically what it is. But more and more men are not to buying
 

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Personally I don't care as much anymore, I have cultivated my own interests to the point that they are enough to sustain me. It has shifted my mental state. I feel much more peaceful and content. But with that said, I am not going to bet on a decline of thirst any time soon. We live in a thirst pandemic and will continue to do so until men genuinely start to cultivate their own lives in ways that satisfy them without women.
End game state. When you're truly content to be alone or without women. It gives you a tremendous amount of power, but like you said once you're at that level playing the "game" just seems petty. This is where I'm at now. Weekday evenings I'm either in the gym or pursuing my social hobbies and interests. Weekends I decompress with video games and reading novels since too much socialising drains my energy.

I got a text over the weekend from a chick I was trying to smash a few months ago. "Happy New Year, let's get that drink we missed last year?" So now she's chasing. No intention of prioritising her over my friends or weekday hobbies and a big part of me would rather just bust a nut to PH and play Fortnite than offer up a Saturday or Sunday evening.
 

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I was lurking in the purple pill discussion sub reddit and someone posted a recent study showing that the number of women that were not having sex has risen at the same rate as the number of men reporting that they are not having sex, both were a little over 22%
Can you send me the link?
 

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End game state. When you're truly content to be alone or without women. It gives you a tremendous amount of power, but like you said once you're at that level playing the "game" just seems petty. This is where I'm at now. Weekday evenings I'm either in the gym or pursuing my social hobbies and interests. Weekends I decompress with video games and reading novels since too much socialising drains my energy.

I got a text over the weekend from a chick I was trying to smash a few months ago. "Happy New Year, let's get that drink we missed last year?" So now she's chasing. No intention of prioritising her over my friends or weekday hobbies and a big part of me would rather just bust a nut to PH and play Fortnite than offer up a Saturday or Sunday evening.
How old are you? I am of the opinion that past late 30s, you cannot "video game" at your peak, so I quit. It was "fun" when I could be the ever-living most dominate player in the match. I believe that late 30s is when your peak will inevitably expire, no matter What you are doing. Your eyes, your balance, everything is "off-point;" therefore, all I do to decompress is to read books. I wish that I could dig up a dead author, bring him back to life, and Force him to write another book, cause I'd read a 1920s - 1950s author every year until I die if I could. So I have to re-read his stuff, which I'm not complaining, but it's a way of thinking or "common sense" not seen today, that I want my mind to work like. I want to think like this intelligent author, and I see that the days of the past were just more Playful or circular in speech and thinking - people everywhere just knew they were gonna die and were just apart of this "play" and so many didn't take the small stuff seriously, while the big stuff very much so seriously. There was hardship no doubt, and negativity, but people rolled on. Of course, the family dynamic was intact and there, people got married and stayed married as a way of life. They realized life is short, if the women didn't realize it, well they were Forced to realize it eventually and maybe some never did. Today? They don't realize it, the great majority of em. There's no forward thinking, the great lot of em. At least in the past they were Forced to stay put against their nature to get up and move around and fidget like children.
 

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How old are you? I am of the opinion that past late 30s, you cannot "video game" at your peak, so I quit. It was "fun" when I could be the ever-living most dominate player in the match. I believe that late 30s is when your peak will inevitably expire, no matter What you are doing. Your eyes, your balance, everything is "off-point;" therefore, all I do to decompress is to read books. I wish that I could dig up a dead author, bring him back to life, and Force him to write another book, cause I'd read a 1920s - 1950s author every year until I die if I could. So I have to re-read his stuff, which I'm not complaining, but it's a way of thinking or "common sense" not seen today, that I want my mind to work like. I want to think like this intelligent author, and I see that the days of the past were just more Playful or circular in speech and thinking - people everywhere just knew they were gonna die and were just apart of this "play" and so many didn't take the small stuff seriously, while the big stuff very much so seriously. There was hardship no doubt, and negativity, but people rolled on. Of course, the family dynamic was intact and there, people got married and stayed married as a way of life. They realized life is short, if the women didn't realize it, well they were Forced to realize it eventually and maybe some never did. Today? They don't realize it, the great majority of em. There's no forward thinking, the great lot of em. At least in the past they were Forced to stay put against their nature to get up and move around and fidget like children.
In my 30s and yes theres been a marked drop in my reflexes and response time since teens. Its inevitable. But you can make up for it with your tactical awareness. Besides it's about having fun and trying to max your own performance, while accepting that you're unlikely to beat some 16 year old who plays 7 hours a day.

I have a great time and don't see that changing any time soon.
 

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was a pro gamer at 42 so you still got sometime :)
 

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How old are you? I am of the opinion that past late 30s, you cannot "video game" at your peak, so I quit. It was "fun" when I could be the ever-living most dominate player in the match. I believe that late 30s is when your peak will inevitably expire, no matter What you are doing. Your eyes, your balance, everything is "off-point;" therefore, all I do to decompress is to read books. I wish that I could dig up a dead author, bring him back to life, and Force him to write another book, cause I'd read a 1920s - 1950s author every year until I die if I could. So I have to re-read his stuff, which I'm not complaining, but it's a way of thinking or "common sense" not seen today, that I want my mind to work like. I want to think like this intelligent author, and I see that the days of the past were just more Playful or circular in speech and thinking - people everywhere just knew they were gonna die and were just apart of this "play" and so many didn't take the small stuff seriously, while the big stuff very much so seriously. There was hardship no doubt, and negativity, but people rolled on. Of course, the family dynamic was intact and there, people got married and stayed married as a way of life. They realized life is short, if the women didn't realize it, well they were Forced to realize it eventually and maybe some never did. Today? They don't realize it, the great majority of em. There's no forward thinking, the great lot of em. At least in the past they were Forced to stay put against their nature to get up and move around and fidget like children.
Are you saying that you peaked at late 30 or did I read your msg wrong?

Rsd Tyler mentioned that you rarely see guys beyond who still got it. Men 40 + who are cool, got game and aren't simping.

I think that the ideal. Is to be the outlier. A recent rsd tyler vid was talking about evo psych, hind brain, and tribal times, the alpha had a winner effect. The rest of the tribe took the scraps. The ideal candidate will be a outlier who stepped out of the beaten path. Easier said than done. Look at RooshV is a example of a lifetime of game and nothing to show for.
 

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Yeah actually now that you mention this I have noticed this, all those memes shaming white knights seems to have had a massive impact.

We still have a long way to go though to undo decades of damage but I have hope
 

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Interesting post!

I observed that too... this is actually happening as men see this as a desperate behavior, so there is a adaptation happening.

Also, even with more men waking up. I think that they keep doing something similar like answering stories post with something similar a comment. Not exposing but still keeping the behavior.

Interesting fact: when I used to post personal pictures on my instagram I had more girls DM me and they were more interested. Now that I removed all my personal stuffs there... it's like you become a ghost. It's not bad, just make me see how those things works those days. It's kind of stupid.

A woman instagram profile says a lot about her. Most of self naked profiles, ass showcases, parties showcases and similar stuffs don't even worth to only ****. It's like social media are creating narcissist people with obsessed behaviors.

Funny story: I have a guy that studied with me, and he got a gf... then she started to take him to put botox on face. He was obsessed with beauty and are doing some things like botox that I just can't believe how he got in that position. It's sad.

Today I use my instagram only to market my app and projects. The best decision in my life.
 

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Interesting post!

I observed that too... this is actually happening as men see this as a desperate behavior, so there is a adaptation happening.

Also, even with more men waking up. I think that they keep doing something similar like answering stories post with something similar a comment. Not exposing but still keeping the behavior.

Interesting fact: when I used to post personal pictures on my instagram I had more girls DM me and they were more interested. Now that I removed all my personal stuffs there... it's like you become a ghost. It's not bad, just make me see how those things works those days. It's kind of stupid.

A woman instagram profile says a lot about her. Most of self naked profiles, ass showcases, parties showcases and similar stuffs don't even worth to only ****. It's like social media are creating narcissist people with obsessed behaviors.

Funny story: I have a guy that studied with me, and he got a gf... then she started to take him to put botox on face. He was obsessed with beauty and are doing some things like botox that I just can't believe how he got in that position. It's sad.

Today I use my instagram only to market my app and projects. The best decision in my life.
A man getting Botox? Wow that’s a new low. The crash is coming for the guy ? Then what? Hopefully he will find SoSuave lol
 

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A man getting Botox? Wow that’s a new low. The crash is coming for the guy ? Then what? Hopefully he will find SoSuave lol
I could not believe too... but I've watched his IG stories. Man I got so sad for him, cause we used to be friends in college, that time he was a lot different. I'm pretty sure it's his gf putting this sh1ts into his mind. Brainwashed.

Like he said: "Men can do those stuffs too". And then show a woman putting botox into his face, with a pink text legend!! o_O

His face is becoming like a woman face, it's very weird.

Making eyebrows, face botox... this is the ultimate level of women trying to feminize men. LOL

It's the craziest social media perfection obsession + her gf influence.

Men should care about their body and health, but not at this level. Anyways, each person is free to choose whatever makes them happy.
 

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I could not believe too... but I've watched his IG stories. Man I got so sad for him, cause we used to be friends in college, that time he was a lot different. I'm pretty sure it's his gf putting this sh1ts into his mind. Brainwashed.

Like he said: "Men can do those stuffs too". And then show a woman putting botox into his face, with a pink text legend!! o_O

His face is becoming like a woman face, it's very weird.

Making eyebrows, face botox... this is the ultimate level of women trying to feminize men. LOL

It's the craziest social media perfection obsession + her gf influence.

Men should care about their body and health, but not at this level. Anyways, each person is free to choose whatever makes them happy.
Along with that I still can’t believe men are shaving their nuts now. What started all that ? I Think back to the true roots of masculine men, cave men. I never got to meet a cave man and ask him but I would imagine they weren’t shaving their jewels. lol
 

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Along with that I still can’t believe men are shaving their nuts now. What started all that ? I Think back to the true roots of masculine men, cave men. I never got to meet a cave man and ask him but I would imagine they weren’t shaving their jewels. lol
not sure what the problem is with getting nuts shaved. I like my balls sucked more than my **** :)
 

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Along with that I still can’t believe men are shaving their nuts now. What started all that ? I Think back to the true roots of masculine men, cave men. I never got to meet a cave man and ask him but I would imagine they weren’t shaving their jewels. lol
Balls hang a little lower shaved. Plus she has additional options. Plus it holds less odor.
 

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Along with that I still can’t believe men are shaving their nuts now. What started all that ? I Think back to the true roots of masculine men, cave men. I never got to meet a cave man and ask him but I would imagine they weren’t shaving their jewels. lol
Hahaha... That's a great question!

I think the biggest problem we're experience in all humans is something like Buddha said: "Ignorance is the root of all evil"

With all those distractions we're creating to run away from pain, and avoiding to confront our fears and negative experiences, people are getting really ignorant. So it may explain in some parts why those behaviors are happening.

Shaving their nuts may have something about trying to chase some perfect stage (but as said above, maybe we just don't need too much hair in some areas anymore, since we have clothes, etc... and it's more comfortable for us)... like are sold on TV, social media, etc. Look how perfect those guys looks and how little hairs they have in their body.

Those who live in ignorance are easily manipulated by these things. They are not bad for that, it's only that they did not realize those stuffs. It's hard to accept the truth sometimes, even more if it's followed by fear.

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