"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone Loathing all the gratuitious female rejection

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The fact is alot of things women do in dating men LOATHE.

A friend of mine told me about how her current boyfriend asked her out. This was during the beginning stages of their relationship. She told me her response when he asked her out, "maybe I shouldn't go out with him: he was nervous." "It shows he's not self-confident." I jumped all over her.

DON'T YOU EVALUATE THIS MAN BY HOW HE ASKS YOU OUT!!
You can't "judge" this person on that simple situation or make
blanket statements about who he is. GET A ****ING CLUE!

Well , she went out with him ( because of me jumping in) and found this guy to be one of the most wonderful guys. Sweet, good hearted, generous--a huge leap in "class" from the sleasy, lying, alcoholics she was finding in the BAR SCENE who wanted to **** her and dump her. She's found a keeper.

I am thinking that all this stress on self-confidance by women is really a poor way for them to choose a man. What I see often is an extreme judgmentalism which prevents the women from developing true JUDGEMENT- based on facts and reality. Women need to develope an accurate perception and discernment of who a person is. The quick initial judgementalism is harsh and cold and prevents the learning and experience which develops true JUDGEMENT. THey just reject out of hand. And we (the men) are left with a lot of gratuitous rejection.

Men score (on average) much higher in Mathematical intelligence, and this is much more highly correlated with critical thinking ability. Women have quite the lead though in Verbal intelligence, but they don't have the critical thinking ability. Hence , the reliance on status, self-confidance and other signals of WORTH by the female.

That doesn't mean you can't help women think better. I did in the above example. Some of you ought to CLUE IN some of your female friends-and help them to think critically. Get them to realize that there is a distinction between Judgement-based on facts and experience and the lightening quick judgementalism they exhibit.


Geoff
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kineti[C]harm

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The problem is that you are trying to overcome genetical imprinting and primal instincts.

See we humans are a flockpeople, you have men and you have women and you have children. Even though we are a monogameous society mostly you will see that most men want more than one women, hence that most men actually are "womenizers".

If you look at flock animals for example wolfs you'll see that there is a dominant male that gets all the female wolfs and gets to procreate and further his genes. What is special about this wolf? He is genetically the strongest. He is the dominant one, the strong one.

Confidence is a VERY big part of being strong in human society, confidence shows STRENGTH. See where I'm going with this? Female genes are imprinted with finding the best guy to procreate with, the dominant, strong, confident one. The reason this changes over time for a women (when she gets older) is because she learns and gets recoded with experiences. Her values takes over and so does her opinions in life but the primal instincts are still there, just dormant or surpressed to some extent.

There is NO WAY to make this go away, except by genetically reimprinting females for the next thousands of years by changing society and roles but of course that will never happen. Confidence is a good thing and in my opinion should be an important part of judging someone for certain roles.
 
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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
The reason this changes over time for a women (when she gets older) is because she learns and gets recoded with experiences. Her values takes over and so does her opinions in life but the primal instincts are still there,
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i thought it was because theyve had their fill of guys who make them wet and its time to settle and pick a supplicating beta who will give her security and reliability, and with age she has to drop standards not to mention a biological clock that only gets louder and louder.
 
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Originally posted by gmm567
The fact is alot of things women do in dating men LOATHE.

A friend of mine told me about how her current boyfriend asked her out. This was during the beginning stages of their relationship. She told me her response when he asked her out, "maybe I shouldn't go out with him: he was nervous." "It shows he's not self-confident." I jumped all over her.

DON'T YOU EVALUATE THIS MAN BY HOW HE ASKS YOU OUT!!
You can't "judge" this person on that simple situation or make
blanket statements about who he is. GET A ****ING CLUE!

Well , she went out with him ( because of me jumping in) and found this guy to be one of the most wonderful guys. Sweet, good hearted, generous--a huge leap in "class" from the sleasy, lying, alcoholics she was finding in the BAR SCENE who wanted to **** her and dump her. She's found a keeper.

I am thinking that all this stress on self-confidance by women is really a poor way for them to choose a man. What I see often is an extreme judgmentalism which prevents the women from developing true JUDGEMENT- based on facts and reality. Women need to develope an accurate perception and discernment of who a person is. The quick initial judgementalism is harsh and cold and prevents the learning and experience which develops true JUDGEMENT. THey just reject out of hand. And we (the men) are left with a lot of gratuitous rejection.

Men score (on average) much higher in Mathematical intelligence, and this is much more highly correlated with critical thinking ability. Women have quite the lead though in Verbal intelligence, but they don't have the critical thinking ability. Hence , the reliance on status, self-confidance and other signals of WORTH by the female.

That doesn't mean you can't help women think better. I did in the above example. Some of you ought to CLUE IN some of your female friends-and help them to think critically. Get them to realize that there is a distinction between Judgement-based on facts and experience and the lightening quick judgementalism they exhibit.


Geoff
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You seem like a pretty intelligent guy, but "Judgmentalism" isn't a word.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good analysis Kinetic harm or kineti charm also good response from titty man!
 
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