"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Anyone Loathing all the gratuitious female rejection

G

gmm567

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2003
Messages
81
Reaction score
0
Age
68
The fact is alot of things women do in dating men LOATHE.

A friend of mine told me about how her current boyfriend asked her out. This was during the beginning stages of their relationship. She told me her response when he asked her out, "maybe I shouldn't go out with him: he was nervous." "It shows he's not self-confident." I jumped all over her.

DON'T YOU EVALUATE THIS MAN BY HOW HE ASKS YOU OUT!!
You can't "judge" this person on that simple situation or make
blanket statements about who he is. GET A ****ING CLUE!

Well , she went out with him ( because of me jumping in) and found this guy to be one of the most wonderful guys. Sweet, good hearted, generous--a huge leap in "class" from the sleasy, lying, alcoholics she was finding in the BAR SCENE who wanted to **** her and dump her. She's found a keeper.

I am thinking that all this stress on self-confidance by women is really a poor way for them to choose a man. What I see often is an extreme judgmentalism which prevents the women from developing true JUDGEMENT- based on facts and reality. Women need to develope an accurate perception and discernment of who a person is. The quick initial judgementalism is harsh and cold and prevents the learning and experience which develops true JUDGEMENT. THey just reject out of hand. And we (the men) are left with a lot of gratuitous rejection.

Men score (on average) much higher in Mathematical intelligence, and this is much more highly correlated with critical thinking ability. Women have quite the lead though in Verbal intelligence, but they don't have the critical thinking ability. Hence , the reliance on status, self-confidance and other signals of WORTH by the female.

That doesn't mean you can't help women think better. I did in the above example. Some of you ought to CLUE IN some of your female friends-and help them to think critically. Get them to realize that there is a distinction between Judgement-based on facts and experience and the lightening quick judgementalism they exhibit.


Geoff
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

K

Kineti[C]harm

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2003
Messages
1,520
Reaction score
2
The problem is that you are trying to overcome genetical imprinting and primal instincts.

See we humans are a flockpeople, you have men and you have women and you have children. Even though we are a monogameous society mostly you will see that most men want more than one women, hence that most men actually are "womenizers".

If you look at flock animals for example wolfs you'll see that there is a dominant male that gets all the female wolfs and gets to procreate and further his genes. What is special about this wolf? He is genetically the strongest. He is the dominant one, the strong one.

Confidence is a VERY big part of being strong in human society, confidence shows STRENGTH. See where I'm going with this? Female genes are imprinted with finding the best guy to procreate with, the dominant, strong, confident one. The reason this changes over time for a women (when she gets older) is because she learns and gets recoded with experiences. Her values takes over and so does her opinions in life but the primal instincts are still there, just dormant or surpressed to some extent.

There is NO WAY to make this go away, except by genetically reimprinting females for the next thousands of years by changing society and roles but of course that will never happen. Confidence is a good thing and in my opinion should be an important part of judging someone for certain roles.
 
?

( . )( . )

Banned
Joined
Dec 31, 2002
Messages
4,873
Reaction score
177
Location
Cobra Kai dojo
Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
The reason this changes over time for a women (when she gets older) is because she learns and gets recoded with experiences. Her values takes over and so does her opinions in life but the primal instincts are still there,
Click to expand...
i thought it was because theyve had their fill of guys who make them wet and its time to settle and pick a supplicating beta who will give her security and reliability, and with age she has to drop standards not to mention a biological clock that only gets louder and louder.
 
J

joey37

Banned
Joined
Oct 9, 2003
Messages
243
Reaction score
1
Originally posted by gmm567
The fact is alot of things women do in dating men LOATHE.

A friend of mine told me about how her current boyfriend asked her out. This was during the beginning stages of their relationship. She told me her response when he asked her out, "maybe I shouldn't go out with him: he was nervous." "It shows he's not self-confident." I jumped all over her.

DON'T YOU EVALUATE THIS MAN BY HOW HE ASKS YOU OUT!!
You can't "judge" this person on that simple situation or make
blanket statements about who he is. GET A ****ING CLUE!

Well , she went out with him ( because of me jumping in) and found this guy to be one of the most wonderful guys. Sweet, good hearted, generous--a huge leap in "class" from the sleasy, lying, alcoholics she was finding in the BAR SCENE who wanted to **** her and dump her. She's found a keeper.

I am thinking that all this stress on self-confidance by women is really a poor way for them to choose a man. What I see often is an extreme judgmentalism which prevents the women from developing true JUDGEMENT- based on facts and reality. Women need to develope an accurate perception and discernment of who a person is. The quick initial judgementalism is harsh and cold and prevents the learning and experience which develops true JUDGEMENT. THey just reject out of hand. And we (the men) are left with a lot of gratuitous rejection.

Men score (on average) much higher in Mathematical intelligence, and this is much more highly correlated with critical thinking ability. Women have quite the lead though in Verbal intelligence, but they don't have the critical thinking ability. Hence , the reliance on status, self-confidance and other signals of WORTH by the female.

That doesn't mean you can't help women think better. I did in the above example. Some of you ought to CLUE IN some of your female friends-and help them to think critically. Get them to realize that there is a distinction between Judgement-based on facts and experience and the lightening quick judgementalism they exhibit.


Geoff
Click to expand...

You seem like a pretty intelligent guy, but "Judgmentalism" isn't a word.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

P

PuertoRican_Lover

Banned
Joined
Nov 6, 2003
Messages
4,280
Reaction score
8
Location
Wisconsin. USA
Good analysis Kinetic harm or kineti charm also good response from titty man!
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top