"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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anyone here with long hair?

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well i finally grew my hair out into a ponytail.. i love it. but i wanted to know about long hair maintenance what shampoo would be good to keep it shiny and soft. and also when i take a shower and run my hands through my hair a couple strands of hair are on my hand is this normal? and any other tips
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ChapStick

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Neutrogena has this triple moisturizer shampoo and conditioner.. My brother has long hair and he uses it..
 

Suicide

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Us pretty boys with the long hair...

I use Bumble and Bumble products. Expensive, but worth it. It's normal to lose some hair when you shower, and you should only wash your hair every other day if you're using a mild shampoo.

I like the coconut shampoo and conditioner. But the seaweed is good too.
 

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I'm growing my hair out long. My hair is really wavy so it basically looks funky most of the time :( I use shampoo and conditioner for dry hair, I was told me hair was dry, I had no clue. I also use a leave in conditoiner.

Does anybody have any products they recommend to style their hair? My hair basically does what it wants not what I want :(

Oh every other day wash? Should we condition it every day or every other?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Having had long hair for years since I'm 16, I've tried almost all the products out there, and they're all the f*ckin' same. I currently use Pert Plus Shampoo mixed with conditioner to wash my hair, and for conditioner I use Finesse. Just keep combing it to distribute the oils. The more you do this, the better your hair will look, and the more the b*tches will cold approach you on how "they love it". And lest we admit, there's nothing better than a chick approaching YOU as opposed to the other way around. Takes a little work and tension off our backs.

As far as washing goes, I'll usually wash it when it starts getting greasy, which can vary...sometimes it'll stay good for 2-3 days, then there's some other times it won't. So wash it when it starts getting greasy. And as far as losing hairs goes, it's normal as could be. It's said that people loose 150 hairs or more a day.
 

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speakeasy said:
Get a haircut, hippy!
Actually, how 'bout you grow your hair, and some balls while you're at it...it might get ya laid.
 

Heart Break Kid

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I just use the fructis shampoo and conditioner. Lots of compliments. Cold water is very good for hair too, especially if it's highlighted and will leave it very silky/shiny. The only problem is cold showers are a fate worse than death for many people.
 

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edger said:
Actually, how 'bout you grow your hair, and some balls while you're at it...it might get ya laid.

So let me get this straight, growing my hair into a ponytail will get me laid? I can't believe I didn't think of it first.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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