"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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anyone here with long hair?

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well i finally grew my hair out into a ponytail.. i love it. but i wanted to know about long hair maintenance what shampoo would be good to keep it shiny and soft. and also when i take a shower and run my hands through my hair a couple strands of hair are on my hand is this normal? and any other tips
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ChapStick

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Neutrogena has this triple moisturizer shampoo and conditioner.. My brother has long hair and he uses it..
 

Suicide

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Us pretty boys with the long hair...

I use Bumble and Bumble products. Expensive, but worth it. It's normal to lose some hair when you shower, and you should only wash your hair every other day if you're using a mild shampoo.

I like the coconut shampoo and conditioner. But the seaweed is good too.
 

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I'm growing my hair out long. My hair is really wavy so it basically looks funky most of the time :( I use shampoo and conditioner for dry hair, I was told me hair was dry, I had no clue. I also use a leave in conditoiner.

Does anybody have any products they recommend to style their hair? My hair basically does what it wants not what I want :(

Oh every other day wash? Should we condition it every day or every other?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Having had long hair for years since I'm 16, I've tried almost all the products out there, and they're all the f*ckin' same. I currently use Pert Plus Shampoo mixed with conditioner to wash my hair, and for conditioner I use Finesse. Just keep combing it to distribute the oils. The more you do this, the better your hair will look, and the more the b*tches will cold approach you on how "they love it". And lest we admit, there's nothing better than a chick approaching YOU as opposed to the other way around. Takes a little work and tension off our backs.

As far as washing goes, I'll usually wash it when it starts getting greasy, which can vary...sometimes it'll stay good for 2-3 days, then there's some other times it won't. So wash it when it starts getting greasy. And as far as losing hairs goes, it's normal as could be. It's said that people loose 150 hairs or more a day.
 

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speakeasy said:
Get a haircut, hippy!
Actually, how 'bout you grow your hair, and some balls while you're at it...it might get ya laid.
 

Heart Break Kid

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I just use the fructis shampoo and conditioner. Lots of compliments. Cold water is very good for hair too, especially if it's highlighted and will leave it very silky/shiny. The only problem is cold showers are a fate worse than death for many people.
 

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edger said:
Actually, how 'bout you grow your hair, and some balls while you're at it...it might get ya laid.

So let me get this straight, growing my hair into a ponytail will get me laid? I can't believe I didn't think of it first.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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