"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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anyone here with long hair?

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well i finally grew my hair out into a ponytail.. i love it. but i wanted to know about long hair maintenance what shampoo would be good to keep it shiny and soft. and also when i take a shower and run my hands through my hair a couple strands of hair are on my hand is this normal? and any other tips
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ChapStick

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Neutrogena has this triple moisturizer shampoo and conditioner.. My brother has long hair and he uses it..
 

Suicide

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Us pretty boys with the long hair...

I use Bumble and Bumble products. Expensive, but worth it. It's normal to lose some hair when you shower, and you should only wash your hair every other day if you're using a mild shampoo.

I like the coconut shampoo and conditioner. But the seaweed is good too.
 

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I'm growing my hair out long. My hair is really wavy so it basically looks funky most of the time :( I use shampoo and conditioner for dry hair, I was told me hair was dry, I had no clue. I also use a leave in conditoiner.

Does anybody have any products they recommend to style their hair? My hair basically does what it wants not what I want :(

Oh every other day wash? Should we condition it every day or every other?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Having had long hair for years since I'm 16, I've tried almost all the products out there, and they're all the f*ckin' same. I currently use Pert Plus Shampoo mixed with conditioner to wash my hair, and for conditioner I use Finesse. Just keep combing it to distribute the oils. The more you do this, the better your hair will look, and the more the b*tches will cold approach you on how "they love it". And lest we admit, there's nothing better than a chick approaching YOU as opposed to the other way around. Takes a little work and tension off our backs.

As far as washing goes, I'll usually wash it when it starts getting greasy, which can vary...sometimes it'll stay good for 2-3 days, then there's some other times it won't. So wash it when it starts getting greasy. And as far as losing hairs goes, it's normal as could be. It's said that people loose 150 hairs or more a day.
 

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speakeasy said:
Get a haircut, hippy!
Actually, how 'bout you grow your hair, and some balls while you're at it...it might get ya laid.
 

Heart Break Kid

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I just use the fructis shampoo and conditioner. Lots of compliments. Cold water is very good for hair too, especially if it's highlighted and will leave it very silky/shiny. The only problem is cold showers are a fate worse than death for many people.
 

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edger said:
Actually, how 'bout you grow your hair, and some balls while you're at it...it might get ya laid.

So let me get this straight, growing my hair into a ponytail will get me laid? I can't believe I didn't think of it first.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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