"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone here know how to learn English better?

nelysses

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I know that's not about this forum but I'm a med student and I should read books about that. So I should learn english well. as good as my native. So what Can I do about this? I can communicate with people if i go abroad but not so good and just daily conversations.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hi Nelysses,
My Father Spoke fluent French,learned in three months living with a Lady in Marseilles...as a Boy growing up in a Migrant Hostel I saw young Dutch Boys,fresh off the boat,learning English in six weeks.. It's called immersion learning.
 

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I know that's not about this forum but I'm a med student and I should read books about that. So I should learn english well. as good as my native. So what Can I do about this? I can communicate with people if i go abroad but not so good and just daily conversations.
Reading this forum seems like a good habit.
 

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Watch English television, in particular news. Read English books. However, to speak well you will have to socialize with English speakers.
 

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English? Im getting better at that lol. But I'm from South Texas where the majority are Hispanics and I still haven't learned Spanish after all these years. Nor would I be interested in, I like it too much to dislike it. I'm a diagnosed Schizophrenic but I have it under control through medication and several practices, but still eating out at restaurants while understanding Spanish would be somewhat of an intrusive and triggering experience for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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