I know that's not about this forum but I'm a med student and I should read books about that. So I should learn english well. as good as my native. So what Can I do about this? I can communicate with people if i go abroad but not so good and just daily conversations.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Anyone here know how to learn English better?
- Thread starter nelysses
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Scaramouche
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Hi Nelysses,
My Father Spoke fluent French,learned in three months living with a Lady in Marseilles...as a Boy growing up in a Migrant Hostel I saw young Dutch Boys,fresh off the boat,learning English in six weeks.. It's called immersion learning.
My Father Spoke fluent French,learned in three months living with a Lady in Marseilles...as a Boy growing up in a Migrant Hostel I saw young Dutch Boys,fresh off the boat,learning English in six weeks.. It's called immersion learning.
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Reading this forum seems like a good habit.
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Watch English television, in particular news. Read English books. However, to speak well you will have to socialize with English speakers.
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English? Im getting better at that lol. But I'm from South Texas where the majority are Hispanics and I still haven't learned Spanish after all these years. Nor would I be interested in, I like it too much to dislike it. I'm a diagnosed Schizophrenic but I have it under control through medication and several practices, but still eating out at restaurants while understanding Spanish would be somewhat of an intrusive and triggering experience for me.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Watch movies with English subtitles on.