I know that's not about this forum but I'm a med student and I should read books about that. So I should learn english well. as good as my native. So what Can I do about this? I can communicate with people if i go abroad but not so good and just daily conversations.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Anyone here know how to learn English better?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Scaramouche
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Hi Nelysses,
My Father Spoke fluent French,learned in three months living with a Lady in Marseilles...as a Boy growing up in a Migrant Hostel I saw young Dutch Boys,fresh off the boat,learning English in six weeks.. It's called immersion learning.
My Father Spoke fluent French,learned in three months living with a Lady in Marseilles...as a Boy growing up in a Migrant Hostel I saw young Dutch Boys,fresh off the boat,learning English in six weeks.. It's called immersion learning.
zekko
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Reading this forum seems like a good habit.
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Watch English television, in particular news. Read English books. However, to speak well you will have to socialize with English speakers.
Travel memoir21
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English? Im getting better at that lol. But I'm from South Texas where the majority are Hispanics and I still haven't learned Spanish after all these years. Nor would I be interested in, I like it too much to dislike it. I'm a diagnosed Schizophrenic but I have it under control through medication and several practices, but still eating out at restaurants while understanding Spanish would be somewhat of an intrusive and triggering experience for me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Watch movies with English subtitles on.